In sy eie woorde...
Oor Hom
I'm honest, an introvert by nature (INTP) but a practiced extrovert, reasonably travelled as well as sufficiently trampled to know my way around. Less definite and opinionated than I was in my thirties, most certainly more tolerant and slower to anger. Kind. Compassionate. Adventurous. Daring. Considerate. Intelligent. Witty, apparently quite funny at times. Educated, Conversant, Passionate, Introspective, Younger than my age, Complex, Simple, Thoughtful.
I prefer mountains to beaches, walking and hiking to running or cycling (or climbing), intimate gatherings to parties, MotoGP to F1, Peter Gabriel to Phil Collins, aloes to amaryllis. I know what I like and don't like.
I've seen a lot, been through a lot, still haven't found what I'm looking for. I find it curious that we have to define ourselves in quite a one dimensional way, for example:
Relationship Status - I'm divorced, for 20 years now, but that doesn't describe the loss I felt when my friend and the mother of my children was killed.
Sports involvement, some from the couch, some quite actively, Reading - sometimes voraciously, at other times not at all, I've read a fair number of books which means more than average.
Online activity - I worked with IT systems... I try to limit it to that and the occasional surfing. but Whatsapp is pervasive hey! I'm passionate about many things, it's a Scorpio trait, and when it comes to lovers it's kept exclusively for that special one. i.e. a one woman man.
Oh, I think it's worth adding that I have lived in SA since 1975, I'm South African, just British by birth. Now busy creating a new life in E Cape having moved here, into what you'd think is the middle of nowhere, at the end of Aug 2023.
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
You resonate with how I describe myself and are devoid of avarice and narcissism (but like lying and cheating it's not that anyone would admit to it). We would have similar tastes in music and movies and what turns us on and off...
I sometimes feel I have a better idea of what I don't want in a partner to what I do want, but here's an attempt at my ideal:
You value and practice fidelity, monogamy, faithfulness, courage and are a strong independent woman compared to a co-dependent. You treat people who serve with respect. You are at peace with and comfortable with your own company but would love to share it with a kindred spirit. You are sexy and beautiful but you don't flaunt it, you save it for your partner.
You rarely wear makeup, dislike shopping and visiting malls, preferring to be out there on or off the beaten track discovering more of our beautiful country and planet.
You are not averse to driving down a 4x4 trail, camping in a 4x4 bus (I have it) or a tent, hiking, taking a Sunday drive to a new place, riding a motorcycle (preferably on your own ,or on mine) - I'm not likely to give up a 46 year passion, even if it is more part time nowadays!), walking through a park, a gallery, a museum, a science expo.
You are experienced, curious, knowledgeable, educated, yet still humble to recognise how little we really know and to see the value in others. There's more to you than meets the eye, always more...
Wat Sy Vriende Sê
ReadyAtLast het nog nie enige aanbevelings van vriende af nie.
Oor Hom
Land van Oorsprong: |
Verenigde Koninkryk | |
Ligging: |
Adelaide (suburbs! this is a small town :)), Oos-Kaap, Suid-Afrika | |
Geslag: |
Manlik | |
Ouderdom: |
61 | |
Sterreteken: |
Skerpioen | |
Lengte: |
179cm (5' 10.5") | |
Liggaamstipe: |
Gemiddeld | |
Uiterlike: |
Bo-gemiddeld | |
Haarkleur: |
Ligbruin | |
Oogkleur: |
Blou | |
Ras: |
Blank / Kaukasiese | |
Huistaal: |
Engels | |
Ander Tale: |
Afrikaans | |
Geloof: |
Agnosties | |
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend | |
Opsoek na: |
Aktiwiteitsmaats; Vriende; Oop vir moontlikhede; Korttermyn; Langtermyn | |
Het Kinders: |
Ja, bly nie by my nie | |
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Nee | |
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Eet meeste kosse | |
Rookgewoontes: |
Nieroker | |
Drinkgewoontes: |
Sosiale drinker | |
Geleerdheid: |
'n Bietjie Universiteit / Kollege | |
Beroep: |
Tegnies / Wetenskaplik / Ingenieurswese | |
Inkomste: |
Genoeg |
Sy Ideale Pasmaat
Land van Oorsprong: |
Enige plek in die Wêreld | ||
Ligging: |
Sentrale Binneland (Oos-Kaap, Suid-Afrika) | ||
Geslag: |
Vroulik | ||
Ouderdomskaal: |
39 - 62 | ||
Sterreteken: |
Enige | ||
Lengte: |
153cm (5' 0.2") - 183cm (6' 0.0") | ||
Liggaamstipe: |
Slank; Gemiddeld; Atleties | ||
Uiterlike: |
Skoonheidswenner; Baie Aantreklik; Bo-gemiddeld; Gemiddeld; Aantreklik | ||
Haarkleur: |
Enige | ||
Oogkleur: |
Amandelbruin; Blou; Blou-Groen; Bruin; Groen; Grys | ||
Het 'n Foto: |
Oorwegend belangrik | ||
Ras: |
Latyns / Hispanis; Blank / Kaukasiese | ||
Huistaal: |
Afrikaans; Deens; Nederlands; Engels; Fins; Frans; Duits; Grieks; Italiaans; Pools; Portugees; Russies; Spaans; Sweeds | ||
Ander Tale: |
Enige | ||
Geloof: |
Agnosties; Ateïsme; Christen / Protestant; Geestelik maar nie godsdienstig nie | ||
Verhoudingstatus: |
Enkellopend; Geskei; Wewenaar / Weduwee | ||
Het Kinders: |
Nee; Ja, bly nie by my nie; Ja, bly soms by my | ||
Wil Kinders Hê: |
Nee | ||
Daaglikse Dieet: |
Eet meeste kosse; Eet gesond | ||
Rookgewoontes: |
Nieroker; Soms | ||
Drinkgewoontes: |
Sosiale drinker | ||
Geleerdheid: |
Hoërskool; 'n Bietjie Universiteit / Kollege; Tegniese Diploma; Associatesgraad; Baccalaureusgraad; Na-graadse kwalifikasie; PhD / Nadoktorale | ||
Beroep: |
Enige | ||
Inkomste: |
Solvent; Genoeg; Gemaklik; Ryk |
- Glad nie belangrik nie
- Effens belangrik
- Redelik belangrik
- Oorwegend belangrik
- Nieonderhandelbaar
Meer Oor Hom
Haarstyl: |
Kort; Reguit |
Sig: |
Ek dra soms bril |
Gesigshare: |
Ek het 'n bokbaardjie |
Liggaamshare: |
Lig |
Liggaamskuns: |
Ek het geen |
Sin vir Humor: |
Skerp sin vir humor |
Intelligensie: |
Intelligent |
Regeer deur: |
Die verstand |
Partytjie Gedrag: |
Meng met almal |
Persoonlikheidstrekke: |
Ekstrovert; Gemaklik; Intelligent; Laf; Optimisties; Realisties; Snaaks; Stil; Uitdagend; Uitgesproke; Versigtig |
Gewaardeerde Kwaliteite: |
Barmhartigheid; Chemie; Eerlikheid; Geduld; Getrouheid; Goedhartigheid; Humor; Meegevoeligheid; Selfbeheersing; Sensualiteit; Vergewend; Vriendelikheid |
Modebewustheid: |
Informeel (Ek dra gewoonlik my gunsteling denim) |
Gunsteling Kleredrag: |
'n Kortbroek & T-hemp |
Gunsteling Kleur: |
Blou |
Afspraak Aktiwiteite: |
'n Piekniek in die park; Aandete by 'n restaurant; Ontmoet vir koffie; Ontmoet vir drankies; Stap op die strand |
Musiek Voorkeure: |
Alternatief; Blues; Instrumentaal; Nuwe Era; Pop / Top 40; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; Rock; Volk; World |
Lees: |
Ek geniet dit |
Boeke: |
(Outo)biografieë; Fiksie; Nie-fiksie; Speurverhale; Wetenskap / Tegnologie; Wetenskapsfiksie |
TV Programme: |
Buitelug / Natuurlewe; Dokumentêr; Komedie / Sitkom; Nuus; Speletjiesprogramme; Sport; Voertuigprogramme |
Fliek Gereeldheid: |
Af-en-toe of ongereeld |
Fliek Voorkeure: |
Aksie; Dokumentêr; Komedie; Kultusklassiek; Misterie; Onafhanklik; Oorlog; Westerse; Wetenskapsfiksie |
Belangstellings: |
Besigheidsnuus; Bordspeletjies; Fotografie; Gesonde leefstyl; Houtwerk; Internetbesoeke; Kaartspeletjies; Lees; Tuinmaak |
Sport Betrokkenheid: |
'n Rusbankkyker |
Sport: |
Atletiek; Backgammon; Kampering; Krieket; Motorsport; Perdry; Rolbal; Rotsklim; Rugby; Skaak; Skaatsplankry; Sneeuplankry; Snoeker; Stap; Staptogte; Vlugbal; Voëlkyk; Waaghalsige sport; Ysskaats |
Kook: |
Ek hou nogal van kook |
Kookkuns: |
Asiatiese Fusie; Frans; Italiaans; Maak nie saak nie; Sjinees; Suid-Afrikaans; Thai |
Uiteet: |
Ek eet net op spesiale geleenthede uit |
Dieetbeperkings : |
Ek het geen; Glutenvry; Laktose-vry; Suikervry |
Lewenspas: |
Ordeloos |
Tyd by die Werk: |
Ek werk nie |
Tydverdryf keuses: |
Stokperdjie beoefen |
Tyd Aanlyn: |
Een of twee keer per week |
Gebruik Dwelms: |
Nie meer nie |
Familie Grootte: |
Ek het broers en susters |
Familie Nouheid: |
Ons is gemiddeld |
Verhoudingstipes: |
Ek is net enkellopend |
Gewillig Om Te Verhuis: |
Ek sal dit oorweeg |
Diere: |
Ek hou van diere |
Troeteldiere (Het): |
Hond(e) |
Troeteldiere (Hou van): |
Kat(te); Perd(e) |
Troeteldiere (hou nie van nie): |
Eksotiese dier(e); Knaagdier(e) |
Prikkels: |
Erotika; Flankering; Intelligensie; Langhare; Liefde toon in die publiek; Naakbaai |
Afsitters: |
Mag |
Werk Verwagtinge: |
Nuwe, meer betekenisvolle werk vind |
Godsdienstige Bywoning: |
Nie van toepassing nie |
Droomhuis: |
'n Huisie in die platteland |
Politiek: |
Matig |
Aftreeplanne: |
Die land deurreis met 'n motorwoning |
Gevoel omtrent die gebruik van Flikvlooi: |
Hoopvol; Nuuskierig; Opgewonde |
Eerlikheid: |
Uiters |
